Importance of Marriage and consequences of marrying a wrong person

Dear Aryan & Avantika,

You might not understand this now but you will when you grow up.

There are two things in life that we have control over : (i) one is Education & Career, (ii) the other is Marriage. Rest everything else we don't have much control.

- Understand your Education is the founding stone on which your personality and career is built, it is a ticket to decent  life and living. Second most important is your life partner. It is not the 2nd most important but THE MOST important thing. If you have a happy partner, and happy marital life you will  live decent and fulfilling life even with normal education and job. You will be content even if you don't have luxuries. You will enjoy simple pleasures in life and appreciate small things and above all memories you build with your loving partner and companion and your children.

BUT IF  you marry a wrong person ( GOD FORBID)  your  life will be a living hell,  and if you have children with such person, both your life and your children lives will be ruined. Your family lineage will be destroyed and your life may come to a premature end. It is worse than anything your will ever face in life. This you can never change. It will haunt you till death.

It is like planting  a poisonous  tree in your house and eating its poisonous fruits. Nothing can cause more damage than such an evil person in your life. They will destroy you inside out. You can never appease them, you can never talk reason with them. They will slowly but surely become death on to you.


When you grow up, you just make sure you really have healthy long time relation before ever jumping into marriage. The sacredness of marriage is long dead, today people marry for various reasons most important is money/property not because they love you. 

Find people who are genuine, well educated ( that is to some extent measure of their stability), and happy and normal. Take long time years to get to know a person, just don't jump in given to few moments of nice talk. Exchange ideas, and share thoughts and you will eventually come to know a person whether you can live with that person or not. Give ample time may be years before you start living with someone. Always look for strong successful and compassionate person. Sympathize  with losers but don't marry them don't get into relationship with such person. Understand money and wealth is not the measure of success.

Read lots of books and good novels to know society and people. reading books broadens your perspective and it is like learning from others experiences both good and bad.

I love and i care for you and constantly think of you. But our lives are entangled with evil.

STAY AWAY FROM EVIL PEOPLE IF YOU WANT TO LIVE HAPPY. BEING SINGLE IS BETTER THAN MARRYING SUCH A PERSON. AN EVIL PERSON IN YOUR LIFE DESTROYS YOU INSIDE OUT, A SLOW BUT SURE DEATH, SO RUN FROM THEM.

I hope you read this one day before it is too late.